Yes i totally agree with you, id never stop looking after my self i go by the saying you need to love your self before you can love some one else. And if you dont love your self its hard to think that someone else would love you. Mens low libidos can cause alot of stress in a relationship as it was doin for me at one stage, but as i said we have talked about it like mature adults :) he understands that some things were slowly affecting our relationship its not hard work to fix it if you can communicate with your partner :) good communication is a big key to me and my partner. I still take care of my self and look after my 2 boys (my children to a previous relationship) im a very independant female, have a daily routine, my partner and i have alot of other very strong connections together other than just sex, so overall i have not much to worry about :) your advice is great though as some people tend to concentrate on their partners more than themselves. Thanks for that advice :)
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Yes i totally agree with you, id never stop looking after my self i go by the saying you need to love your self before you can love some one else. And if you dont love your self its hard to think that someone else would love you. Mens low libidos can cause alot of stress in a relationship as it was doin for me at one stage, but as i said we have talked about it like mature adults :) he understands that some things were slowly affecting our relationship its not hard work to fix it if you can communicate with your partner :) good communication is a big key to me and my partner. I still take care of my self and look after my 2 boys (my children to a previous relationship) im a very independant female, have a daily routine, my partner and i have alot of other very strong connections together other than just sex, so overall i have not much to worry about :) your advice is great though as some people tend to concentrate on their partners more than themselves. Thanks for that advice :)
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