Why are all the articles I read, concentratin on how marvellous and wonderful this is. I met the man of my dreams, I was so happy I could burst. Then one day he destroyed all my faith in humanity and I lost my trust of people forever. He told me he cross dressed. I was shocked and cried and felt lied to but accepted it and helped him. Then as time went on I realised it wasn't just dressing up like a women, it was a sexual fetish. He wasn't turned on by me as he couldn't preform without his accessories. He confided he wanted me to analyse penetrate him with a strap on. You have no idea what this has done to my confidence and now I trust no one. It was shover down my throat the minute I became supportive. My feelings were never considered. My sexual needs never discussed. It's all about you, what you want, your needs. Now in terms mental health profession that is called personality disorder! No care for your fellow humans just a selfish, self centered way of life! Doesn't hurt anyone does it???