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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question, and for finding EmpowHER. I can't imagine how scary this experience is for you, and how conflicted you must feel. Is your partner under the care of a doctor? Has he been diagnosed? Is he on medication?
I completely understand your position. When it all comes down to basics, you've got to do what is right for you. If you feel you are in danger, you've got to get out. If he tells you to leave, leave--don't wait around to find out what's going to happen. When he's in sound mind, talk with him, and explain what you are feeling and your concern. I am hoping you two can work it out, but it sounds like his condition needs some elevated medical care if it's not getting better currently. If he is resistant to work with medical professionals (doctor, psychiatrist, etc.), there's not much you can do and may need to move on. You can still try to help as a friend, but being involved with someone so volatile may not be a good idea.
Bear in mind, I'm not a doctor, this is my own human reaction, so if you disagree, go do what is right for you. Be careful, and be safe. Let us know if you need further support and/or resources. There are some great articles in our mental health section, but wasn't sure exactly what would be helpful in your situation:
Emotional Health articles
Good luck, and please come back and update us.

January 14, 2011 - 9:31am

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