It's an unfortunate place to be when you've been bamboozled by someone who can play the part of a loving partner but not actually 'be' that loving partner, but a fraud. People who cheat will justify it to make up for being a weak, selfish and insecure person who cannot communicate effectively. Being a strong person with good character may notice attractive people, but their self respect and dignity and their commitment to their relationship will supersede any temptation.
You were the strong one in that relationship, it just to you some time to realize who you were dealing with. His lack of character and his actions that followed were more of a reflection of his weak character, not yours.
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It's an unfortunate place to be when you've been bamboozled by someone who can play the part of a loving partner but not actually 'be' that loving partner, but a fraud. People who cheat will justify it to make up for being a weak, selfish and insecure person who cannot communicate effectively. Being a strong person with good character may notice attractive people, but their self respect and dignity and their commitment to their relationship will supersede any temptation.
You were the strong one in that relationship, it just to you some time to realize who you were dealing with. His lack of character and his actions that followed were more of a reflection of his weak character, not yours.
November 14, 2017 - 8:19amThis Comment
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