thank you eskimo.lots of different a/s people out there.my husband is outgoing/agressive/hypa.o,c,d,workaholic.aspergers as is older daughter,his brother and our younger daughter are passive aspergers.
yes we all marry the handsome charmer,funny.odd.hard worker.i knew within 3 days of our wedding that he was very different .please read up TONY ATTWOOD/andMAXINE ASTON.they have saved my sanity.
no normal councilling will never work.you have to find a councillor that specialises in a/s.
when we saw a normal councillor hubby did not speak to her.
recently in U/K the charity relate offers a/s couple councilling.it helped.normal councilling will upset your husband very much.he was only diagnosed 4 yrs ago.so had 40 years of hell.as most oh his close family have a/s[undiagnosed]to them thier behaviour is normal.i am the odd one out to them.so i read every book on a/s i can find.i joined a group for a/s wives,and also mental health carers[daughter is psychotic].i also work with autistic kids and sdults.i now cope more,we have to learn to cope or leave,its not on perpose they hurt our feelings ,they have no empathy/.its not his fault,must be some where in his family.take care,bet he loves you very much,just cant show it.
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thank you eskimo.lots of different a/s people out there.my husband is outgoing/agressive/hypa.o,c,d,workaholic.aspergers as is older daughter,his brother and our younger daughter are passive aspergers.
December 6, 2010 - 4:02pmyes we all marry the handsome charmer,funny.odd.hard worker.i knew within 3 days of our wedding that he was very different .please read up TONY ATTWOOD/andMAXINE ASTON.they have saved my sanity.
no normal councilling will never work.you have to find a councillor that specialises in a/s.
when we saw a normal councillor hubby did not speak to her.
recently in U/K the charity relate offers a/s couple councilling.it helped.normal councilling will upset your husband very much.he was only diagnosed 4 yrs ago.so had 40 years of hell.as most oh his close family have a/s[undiagnosed]to them thier behaviour is normal.i am the odd one out to them.so i read every book on a/s i can find.i joined a group for a/s wives,and also mental health carers[daughter is psychotic].i also work with autistic kids and sdults.i now cope more,we have to learn to cope or leave,its not on perpose they hurt our feelings ,they have no empathy/.its not his fault,must be some where in his family.take care,bet he loves you very much,just cant show it.
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