My partner is Neural Typical (NT - a term adopted by people with aspergers & autism for the rest of the world), and I have Aspergers. I think a succesful relationship of this type requires some compromises for BOTH parties, and the acceptence of each other as a package deal.
The other important thing is to be open about the condition, so that misunderstandings are avoided. It is easy to fall into the trap of misinterpreting behaviours on both sides if you aren't open and willing to talk to each other. I must admit this comes a lot easier for my partner than it does for me, but it is worth the effort.
Don't discount someone just because they have Aspergers Syndrome. There are a lot of positive traits which come as part of the package, you just need to be prepared to go that extra mile (or two) to get to know them.
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My partner is Neural Typical (NT - a term adopted by people with aspergers & autism for the rest of the world), and I have Aspergers. I think a succesful relationship of this type requires some compromises for BOTH parties, and the acceptence of each other as a package deal.
The other important thing is to be open about the condition, so that misunderstandings are avoided. It is easy to fall into the trap of misinterpreting behaviours on both sides if you aren't open and willing to talk to each other. I must admit this comes a lot easier for my partner than it does for me, but it is worth the effort.
Don't discount someone just because they have Aspergers Syndrome. There are a lot of positive traits which come as part of the package, you just need to be prepared to go that extra mile (or two) to get to know them.
July 8, 2010 - 12:53pmThis Comment
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