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I've been with my current boyfriend for nearly a year now. We got together when I was seven months pregnant (my ex had cheated on me) everything sexually was ok but he had (and still does to an extent) a problem with teasing me like no tomorow then taking his laptop into the bathroom and jacking off to anime porn or simply rolling over and going to sleep. Which left me tossing and turning all night or having to go take a bath in order to releive my ownstress. I didn't (and still don't) want to have to take a bath every time i turn around. After going through the healing process after giving birth to my son (who is now 9 months old) and waiting a week for my birth control to kick in we finaly got a night together. It was great (despite his inability to last very long which has improved slightly) but after that he barely even looked at me for a week. I could barely get more than a peck on the lips and a quick hug. I noticed him hiding his laptop from my view and automaticaly knew it was porn. I confronted him about not paying a speck of atention to me and his response was that he didn't want a relationship that evolved aroung sex. Which wasn't what I'd been referring to. Lately he's told me he just looks at porn out of boredom but i'm sure that he jacks off when i'm not around and the only time he looks at porn is when i'm gone. I never make sexual advances for fear of him thinking all i want is sex, but i never tell him no when he's the one that's horny because that's the only time i know i'll get. The last time he seemed into sex was my birthday in may and it lasted for about an hour and then he actually cuddled with me all night long. We've had sex since but not as sensual. I'm probably just over reacting but either way i'm going mad. I'm not sure how to show that I'm interested in sex without seeming like that's all I want. Please help!

June 13, 2012 - 8:32am

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