Thanks for your reply. I did forget to mention that before he quit his job he was getting into the business of selling and installing blinds and shutters. It is going very well at the moment so I can't see him being stressed about work. He also hasn't lost interest in anything. It is funny how you mention internet porn becuase just a few months ago I saw that he had visted a webite. When I confronted him about it he said it was a pop-up. I know that it was not a pop-up becuase this site he actually did visit as I checked the history in the computer...then 2 weeks ago I went to use the computer and when I clicked on the Internet Explorer icon another porn site came up. He actually just minimized it! This time, I got angry and upset. I asked him why he would want to watch that when I am right here and willing anytime to do anything. He insisted that it was a pop-up again but I know 100% it wasn't. I was so hurt and he didn't even bother to console me. He always has a password on the computer so I cannot access it (as I have my own) but that makes me think that he has something to hide from me. I am to the ponit where I can't trust him and want to install keylogger on this computer! I don't want to do it but I need to see for myself what he is doing on there. I didn't mention that we also met online, so could he be using dating sites? I do not know. Nothing else that I know of has changed (family, living arrangements).
After one week passed I tried to sit down with him and tell him that I would be willing to try new things. The door is wide open. He just said he is never in the mood when I come on to him.
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Thanks for your reply. I did forget to mention that before he quit his job he was getting into the business of selling and installing blinds and shutters. It is going very well at the moment so I can't see him being stressed about work. He also hasn't lost interest in anything. It is funny how you mention internet porn becuase just a few months ago I saw that he had visted a webite. When I confronted him about it he said it was a pop-up. I know that it was not a pop-up becuase this site he actually did visit as I checked the history in the computer...then 2 weeks ago I went to use the computer and when I clicked on the Internet Explorer icon another porn site came up. He actually just minimized it! This time, I got angry and upset. I asked him why he would want to watch that when I am right here and willing anytime to do anything. He insisted that it was a pop-up again but I know 100% it wasn't. I was so hurt and he didn't even bother to console me. He always has a password on the computer so I cannot access it (as I have my own) but that makes me think that he has something to hide from me. I am to the ponit where I can't trust him and want to install keylogger on this computer! I don't want to do it but I need to see for myself what he is doing on there. I didn't mention that we also met online, so could he be using dating sites? I do not know. Nothing else that I know of has changed (family, living arrangements).
After one week passed I tried to sit down with him and tell him that I would be willing to try new things. The door is wide open. He just said he is never in the mood when I come on to him.
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