You know, yoga's a great idea! I haven't done it in a long, long time and I used to be religious about going to a local yoga studio that I absolutely love. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow...a perfect thing to do on a Sunday.
You're so right -- those memories can really bite. You know how those mental tapes tend to replay in your mind, mostly out of the blue? That is still happening to me. Like just earlier today, I started thinking how different things would be right now....if he'd just been nice to me. It sounds so simple -- just being nice to your spouse. And consistently, not just sporadically in between shocking bouts of abuse. I don't know how many times I begged him just to be nice to me. That's all I asked. And I don't know why he couldn't.
Well, it sounds like you've gotten to a really healthy place. I can't imagine living only two blocks from my second husband. Talk about a strong woman...you are amazing!!
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Thanks, Missie!!
You know, yoga's a great idea! I haven't done it in a long, long time and I used to be religious about going to a local yoga studio that I absolutely love. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow...a perfect thing to do on a Sunday.
You're so right -- those memories can really bite. You know how those mental tapes tend to replay in your mind, mostly out of the blue? That is still happening to me. Like just earlier today, I started thinking how different things would be right now....if he'd just been nice to me. It sounds so simple -- just being nice to your spouse. And consistently, not just sporadically in between shocking bouts of abuse. I don't know how many times I begged him just to be nice to me. That's all I asked. And I don't know why he couldn't.
Well, it sounds like you've gotten to a really healthy place. I can't imagine living only two blocks from my second husband. Talk about a strong woman...you are amazing!!
July 30, 2010 - 10:32pmThis Comment
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