I have to diasagree with your husband here. If you are 5'7 and 128 lbs, you are by no means overweight! The average size in America is a size 12 and you should be proud of yourself.
I often find that people who put down or ridicule others for the way they look, or for what they do..are insecure themselves but hide it well. You say he is comfortable with what he looks like but disregards your feelings about yourself that you are now uncomfortable to undress in front of your own husband? Relationships should not be insultive, they should be encouraging. If your health was at jeopordy due to being overweight, would he take you for a run to try and help you? Is this purely cosmetic?
How do you feel about you? If you remove his insults, how do you feel about you? Don't forget every woman has their own judgments about themselves but overall, do you feel sexy?
I have to agree with the above posts on this issue! If the man you love continues to insult your appearence, tell him enough is enough. This is clearly hurting your feelings and your description of yourself. Stand up and be beautiful because you are! Good luck!
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Dear song of songs!
I have to diasagree with your husband here. If you are 5'7 and 128 lbs, you are by no means overweight! The average size in America is a size 12 and you should be proud of yourself.
I often find that people who put down or ridicule others for the way they look, or for what they do..are insecure themselves but hide it well. You say he is comfortable with what he looks like but disregards your feelings about yourself that you are now uncomfortable to undress in front of your own husband? Relationships should not be insultive, they should be encouraging. If your health was at jeopordy due to being overweight, would he take you for a run to try and help you? Is this purely cosmetic?
How do you feel about you? If you remove his insults, how do you feel about you? Don't forget every woman has their own judgments about themselves but overall, do you feel sexy?
I have to agree with the above posts on this issue! If the man you love continues to insult your appearence, tell him enough is enough. This is clearly hurting your feelings and your description of yourself. Stand up and be beautiful because you are! Good luck!
June 5, 2010 - 10:13amThis Comment
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