Anonymous is 100% CORRECT. I know because I am that husband. My wife and I have been living together since 1993, it is now 2015. I was 23 when she picked me up in a bar, so that could be part of the reason, as I was still a child and wasn't even really looking for a wife at that point in my life. But, I fell in love with her because she seemed to GET ME and saved me from myself (partying too much). We had lots of sex for the first 7 years or so, then things drifted off for a number of reasons. FIRST OFF ladies, most men want their woman to be confident in bed, sexy in a natural way not as if you are acting, and a bit dirty. Let's face it, this isn't your Mom and Dad's sex anymore. Maybe you should browse the porn sites and see what we are seeing. Some of it is going too far, but allot of it is perfectly safe and a HUGE turn on. Men DO NOT want to "Make love" .. man I hate that term. It's SEX, NOT love. Love is staying together and caring for and supporting one another. SEX is SEX. Listen to Motley Crue, wear your clothes a little too tight, slip a nipple out accidentally once in a while, bend over a counter with a skirt of and no panties with no warning at all. I'll digress, but you ought to get the idea .. hopefully. And DONT be BORING in bed. You need to hop on top of that guy and ride him like you are still in high school and your parents could come home at any minute. Men fantasize. They also need to look at other woman. If you know literally anything about the evolution of mankind, you'll understand that human men are not unlike Male lions in many ways and it is only society, the marriage vows and maybe safety that keep men from going out and having sex with any female that is willing. Men dream of threesomes where both woman are "taking care" of him. Watch the movie "The D Train" and listen to what Oliver Lawless says to the kid about his girlfriend. I mean come on now, you girls are watching the same movies we are .. don't you see how sex has changed ... for the better. Orgasms should be explosive every time because the excitement is there. For the truly daring, you might even want to consider bringing a female friend into the mix. If done right, and keep your emotions out of it, that could change everything and provide new excitement for years to CUM. And yes, I am personally addicted to porn. I look forward to it VERY much as it allows me to be the lion that my brain says that I am. No guilt, this is how our brains are and we cannot change that. Maybe years of marriage suppression will change that in about 1000 years from now, but for now, we are what we are. Monogamy is completely unnatural for Men. But some of us, like me do our very best to at least keep our marriages alive and well and we truly truly love our wives dearly, We just hate having sex with them. For me, eventually I was unable to orgasm, so I called it quits and right around that time porn was becoming better and better. My TV screen is huge with my PC hooked up to it and I can have sex with 100 woman virtually in about 1.5 hours. How can you compete with that. And yes once again, for the third time now I am trying to quit alcohol cold turkey. Life becomes boring and mundane after about 35 years and reality sets in for Men that none of their fantasies will ever come true. So drugs and alcohol fill that void. We are NOT as strong as you girls mentally. Our will-power is weak, I admit it for all Men here today. For me it is even worse because I now suffer from depression and anxiety and I think the lack of real intimacy and sex is part of it, but wanting to be sexual or have great sex cannot be forced or willed upon someone. It has to be natural, passionate, and a little dirty. I'll stop now as I am not sure what else to add, but if I stumble upon this post again and if anyone has any questions, maybe I can at least help explain. And as far as putting on weight, that's not a problem. I have been VERY attracted to heavier set girls many times. Perfect example is Amy Schumer. She is VERY sexy, because of her personality and what she says. Sex is between the ears and nowhere else. Simply speaking with a throaty sexy voice, if done right, could be all your man needs. And don't forget nipslips, upskirts, etc.
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Anonymous is 100% CORRECT. I know because I am that husband. My wife and I have been living together since 1993, it is now 2015. I was 23 when she picked me up in a bar, so that could be part of the reason, as I was still a child and wasn't even really looking for a wife at that point in my life. But, I fell in love with her because she seemed to GET ME and saved me from myself (partying too much). We had lots of sex for the first 7 years or so, then things drifted off for a number of reasons. FIRST OFF ladies, most men want their woman to be confident in bed, sexy in a natural way not as if you are acting, and a bit dirty. Let's face it, this isn't your Mom and Dad's sex anymore. Maybe you should browse the porn sites and see what we are seeing. Some of it is going too far, but allot of it is perfectly safe and a HUGE turn on. Men DO NOT want to "Make love" .. man I hate that term. It's SEX, NOT love. Love is staying together and caring for and supporting one another. SEX is SEX. Listen to Motley Crue, wear your clothes a little too tight, slip a nipple out accidentally once in a while, bend over a counter with a skirt of and no panties with no warning at all. I'll digress, but you ought to get the idea .. hopefully. And DONT be BORING in bed. You need to hop on top of that guy and ride him like you are still in high school and your parents could come home at any minute. Men fantasize. They also need to look at other woman. If you know literally anything about the evolution of mankind, you'll understand that human men are not unlike Male lions in many ways and it is only society, the marriage vows and maybe safety that keep men from going out and having sex with any female that is willing. Men dream of threesomes where both woman are "taking care" of him. Watch the movie "The D Train" and listen to what Oliver Lawless says to the kid about his girlfriend. I mean come on now, you girls are watching the same movies we are .. don't you see how sex has changed ... for the better. Orgasms should be explosive every time because the excitement is there. For the truly daring, you might even want to consider bringing a female friend into the mix. If done right, and keep your emotions out of it, that could change everything and provide new excitement for years to CUM. And yes, I am personally addicted to porn. I look forward to it VERY much as it allows me to be the lion that my brain says that I am. No guilt, this is how our brains are and we cannot change that. Maybe years of marriage suppression will change that in about 1000 years from now, but for now, we are what we are. Monogamy is completely unnatural for Men. But some of us, like me do our very best to at least keep our marriages alive and well and we truly truly love our wives dearly, We just hate having sex with them. For me, eventually I was unable to orgasm, so I called it quits and right around that time porn was becoming better and better. My TV screen is huge with my PC hooked up to it and I can have sex with 100 woman virtually in about 1.5 hours. How can you compete with that. And yes once again, for the third time now I am trying to quit alcohol cold turkey. Life becomes boring and mundane after about 35 years and reality sets in for Men that none of their fantasies will ever come true. So drugs and alcohol fill that void. We are NOT as strong as you girls mentally. Our will-power is weak, I admit it for all Men here today. For me it is even worse because I now suffer from depression and anxiety and I think the lack of real intimacy and sex is part of it, but wanting to be sexual or have great sex cannot be forced or willed upon someone. It has to be natural, passionate, and a little dirty. I'll stop now as I am not sure what else to add, but if I stumble upon this post again and if anyone has any questions, maybe I can at least help explain. And as far as putting on weight, that's not a problem. I have been VERY attracted to heavier set girls many times. Perfect example is Amy Schumer. She is VERY sexy, because of her personality and what she says. Sex is between the ears and nowhere else. Simply speaking with a throaty sexy voice, if done right, could be all your man needs. And don't forget nipslips, upskirts, etc.
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