Thank you for this post. I was actually "stumbling" and came onto this article. My boyfriend/best friend recently broke up with me and i'm having a really hard time getting over it. Some days I feel alright and some days I am sobbing in my room thinking I wish I could have done something differently. I did so much for him and got so little in return. I know he didn't treat me right and I can do so much better, but it still hurts to know that I, for some reason, am unwanted by this person who was supposed to love me and be my best friend. The problem is, he wants to keep things open and still be best friends. I HAVE to see him everyday because we are both in all the same classes and have the same group of friends. It's a sticky messy situation, but this has definately helped me realize that it is time to put up boundaries.
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Thank you for this post. I was actually "stumbling" and came onto this article. My boyfriend/best friend recently broke up with me and i'm having a really hard time getting over it. Some days I feel alright and some days I am sobbing in my room thinking I wish I could have done something differently. I did so much for him and got so little in return. I know he didn't treat me right and I can do so much better, but it still hurts to know that I, for some reason, am unwanted by this person who was supposed to love me and be my best friend. The problem is, he wants to keep things open and still be best friends. I HAVE to see him everyday because we are both in all the same classes and have the same group of friends. It's a sticky messy situation, but this has definately helped me realize that it is time to put up boundaries.
March 25, 2010 - 4:02pmThis Comment
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