I've been fortunate enough to not have seen my ex since we broke up. I have no interest in his life or being friends. Or saying "Hi" to him at all for that matter.
But I agree, when there are children involved it is important to remain civilized but not best buddies. I think being best buddies would definitely send mixed signals not only to your ex but to your children as well. This sometimes gives them false hope that one day you may go back together and I don't think it's healthy for a child and best for both people if they go separate ways but maintain communication about the child's health and school activities.
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Aw, man-- I have to cut off sex? Just Kidding :-)
I've been fortunate enough to not have seen my ex since we broke up. I have no interest in his life or being friends. Or saying "Hi" to him at all for that matter.
But I agree, when there are children involved it is important to remain civilized but not best buddies. I think being best buddies would definitely send mixed signals not only to your ex but to your children as well. This sometimes gives them false hope that one day you may go back together and I don't think it's healthy for a child and best for both people if they go separate ways but maintain communication about the child's health and school activities.
November 30, 2009 - 5:05amThis Comment
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