Well there is always the chance that hes stressed out about something, but when i ask he doesnt say anything is wrong..money is always an issue with him..but i mean i stress about things too but im willing to be intimate with him. I have stopped the oral sex, but that really hasnt changed anything. And i do know that he does watch porn but i havent really notice him doing it alot but i mean he could be doing it when im not there,..he does have all of these figures of anime girls and i dont like them, but i dont want him to stop being his-self, i wouldnt want to do that to him. but he knows i dont like them, and i have just kind of learned to egnore them. i did go on vacation with my family a few months agao and when i got back i found out that he had been spending time with this girl from work..and when i finaly saw him, all he talked about was her!...i told him that i didnt like how this was sounding, and i havnt heard anything about her sence, but i mean he sees her everyday at work and i cant be with him 24/7 so there are going to be something that i dont know about...there could be somthing going on there...i just dont know what to think anymore with whats been going on. i have been loosing weight and eating better trying to look my best when im around him, but still nothing. i just want to feel loved and wanted again. and i do understand that i wont be able to change him, and i dont want to change in completely, id just like some physical contact every once in a while, to make me feel loved.
thanks so much for answering my question...this is kind of touchie subject, and i dont really want to ask my mom..its just nice that someone out there is willing to listen to me and help me out..thanks so much! this is really helping!
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Well there is always the chance that hes stressed out about something, but when i ask he doesnt say anything is wrong..money is always an issue with him..but i mean i stress about things too but im willing to be intimate with him. I have stopped the oral sex, but that really hasnt changed anything. And i do know that he does watch porn but i havent really notice him doing it alot but i mean he could be doing it when im not there,..he does have all of these figures of anime girls and i dont like them, but i dont want him to stop being his-self, i wouldnt want to do that to him. but he knows i dont like them, and i have just kind of learned to egnore them. i did go on vacation with my family a few months agao and when i got back i found out that he had been spending time with this girl from work..and when i finaly saw him, all he talked about was her!...i told him that i didnt like how this was sounding, and i havnt heard anything about her sence, but i mean he sees her everyday at work and i cant be with him 24/7 so there are going to be something that i dont know about...there could be somthing going on there...i just dont know what to think anymore with whats been going on. i have been loosing weight and eating better trying to look my best when im around him, but still nothing. i just want to feel loved and wanted again. and i do understand that i wont be able to change him, and i dont want to change in completely, id just like some physical contact every once in a while, to make me feel loved.
October 29, 2009 - 4:52pmthanks so much for answering my question...this is kind of touchie subject, and i dont really want to ask my mom..its just nice that someone out there is willing to listen to me and help me out..thanks so much! this is really helping!
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