Over a year later, I havnt had sex, I'm in agony as the sides of the lump lie against the vaginal wall and they are now raw and bloodied. Been back to the Consultants twice and according to them I am normal, no lumps, nothing there.
I am now running urine. As soon as I pee I have to go again. I have seen 3 Consultants and they all said the same thing - nothing there. They are making me feel like a neurotic menopausal old woman. One Consultant said I have the best body he has ever seen on a 50 year old. Think he was that busy gawping at me he couldn't do his job.
I am really cross now as I can't have sex with my husband and he is so frightened to hurt me. It's so red and sore that even putting cream on it to heal it hurts never mind even thinking about anything else. I am so annoyed with the medical profession. They are useless with womens issues.
I know my own body and up until 2 years ago I had a full sex life every day and I had no lump, no soreness, nothing. It was amazing. I loved sex with my husband and now we don't even cuddle. I feel so alone and don't know where to go for help. I have to go for a review next month but I think it is a waste of time. It is making me so stressed thinking about it as I am shouting at them in my head.
I am sitting here now and just feel raw down there. At one point my clitoris was numb and I couldn't feel anything. I thought it was just the menopause but my periods have been stopped for 15 months. Every night in bed I am soaking with sweat and am told that you only sweat if you have an illness after the year is up. I am turning a deaf ear to that to try to keep my sanity but every so often I have a moment where I think it is a cancer lump. The mass has definitely grown and taken on several different shapes. I can't even see into my vagina any more. I'm at my wits end. Is there anyone on this thread that has had any satisfactory outcome?
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Over a year later, I havnt had sex, I'm in agony as the sides of the lump lie against the vaginal wall and they are now raw and bloodied. Been back to the Consultants twice and according to them I am normal, no lumps, nothing there.
I am now running urine. As soon as I pee I have to go again. I have seen 3 Consultants and they all said the same thing - nothing there. They are making me feel like a neurotic menopausal old woman. One Consultant said I have the best body he has ever seen on a 50 year old. Think he was that busy gawping at me he couldn't do his job.
I am really cross now as I can't have sex with my husband and he is so frightened to hurt me. It's so red and sore that even putting cream on it to heal it hurts never mind even thinking about anything else. I am so annoyed with the medical profession. They are useless with womens issues.
I know my own body and up until 2 years ago I had a full sex life every day and I had no lump, no soreness, nothing. It was amazing. I loved sex with my husband and now we don't even cuddle. I feel so alone and don't know where to go for help. I have to go for a review next month but I think it is a waste of time. It is making me so stressed thinking about it as I am shouting at them in my head.
I am sitting here now and just feel raw down there. At one point my clitoris was numb and I couldn't feel anything. I thought it was just the menopause but my periods have been stopped for 15 months. Every night in bed I am soaking with sweat and am told that you only sweat if you have an illness after the year is up. I am turning a deaf ear to that to try to keep my sanity but every so often I have a moment where I think it is a cancer lump. The mass has definitely grown and taken on several different shapes. I can't even see into my vagina any more. I'm at my wits end. Is there anyone on this thread that has had any satisfactory outcome?
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