Reading this post brought back my own memories. We were considering to do vaginal but I was afraid due to obvious reasons (unwanted pregnancy as the first one). I am still single and want to build a career before I can bring myself to have a child and take care of one.
However, even with anal, I do remember my own first experience. I think I cried and he had to stop because of the pain I had felt. The pain also did not go for two days as I think the body was adjusting to it. The fear of sex I completely agree with so many women above is such a natural feeling. I am sure the fear of the unknown lives in all of us. But I realized and overtime, that the anal was manageable provided it was not rough.
To be honest, despite having the small experiences I have had, I still am a bigger fan of foreplay and oral more than the actual act of sex (perhaps because I myself have not experienced vaginal as yet)
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Reading this post brought back my own memories. We were considering to do vaginal but I was afraid due to obvious reasons (unwanted pregnancy as the first one). I am still single and want to build a career before I can bring myself to have a child and take care of one.
September 13, 2011 - 7:37pmHowever, even with anal, I do remember my own first experience. I think I cried and he had to stop because of the pain I had felt. The pain also did not go for two days as I think the body was adjusting to it. The fear of sex I completely agree with so many women above is such a natural feeling. I am sure the fear of the unknown lives in all of us. But I realized and overtime, that the anal was manageable provided it was not rough.
To be honest, despite having the small experiences I have had, I still am a bigger fan of foreplay and oral more than the actual act of sex (perhaps because I myself have not experienced vaginal as yet)
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