Hi dear.
I also end up on this page because I was do desperate. I am having the same issue. I am 30, african, christian, and have been in 7 years of long distance relationship and 2 years of mariage but I have tried to overcome the fear but in vain. Now, I feel really better to at least find out I am not alone. I thought I have been cursed or something. This fear is REAL!!! And it's painful when you trying to be a good wife and planning to have kids and seeing other couples even teens enjoying sex except you. I am disappointing my husband a lot and he can't understand why something so easy I hard for me. For him, he is very sure I don't love him enough otherwise I would have done it. Even me I was confused cause I didn't know the real reason behind this terrible fear. So now I feel encouraged at least to know this Genophobie exist. I couldn't tell it to anyone!!! Even my mom. Cause I thought am the only one on earth having such issue. Now, as I saw in the comments here, am going to open up and look for help to a therapist. Since I saw other sisters who went through same problems and got help and got kids now, am now confident, I am going to look for help and I hope I will come here to share with my experience and good testimony. We can do this ladies. May God help us.
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Hi dear.
June 9, 2018 - 4:23amI also end up on this page because I was do desperate. I am having the same issue. I am 30, african, christian, and have been in 7 years of long distance relationship and 2 years of mariage but I have tried to overcome the fear but in vain. Now, I feel really better to at least find out I am not alone. I thought I have been cursed or something. This fear is REAL!!! And it's painful when you trying to be a good wife and planning to have kids and seeing other couples even teens enjoying sex except you. I am disappointing my husband a lot and he can't understand why something so easy I hard for me. For him, he is very sure I don't love him enough otherwise I would have done it. Even me I was confused cause I didn't know the real reason behind this terrible fear. So now I feel encouraged at least to know this Genophobie exist. I couldn't tell it to anyone!!! Even my mom. Cause I thought am the only one on earth having such issue. Now, as I saw in the comments here, am going to open up and look for help to a therapist. Since I saw other sisters who went through same problems and got help and got kids now, am now confident, I am going to look for help and I hope I will come here to share with my experience and good testimony. We can do this ladies. May God help us.
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