Hello Anonymous....
I was in the same boat as you. I was not able to have sex with my husband for 2 years. It was very hard, when we were going to have sex I started screaming, I was really scared of the PAIN. But the pain is not bad. My first time, I try to relax and I try to control my mind, thats how therapy help me. Because if you think negative than the outcome is negative but if you tell your mind that is going to be ok and the outcome is going to be postive. When I had sex it took time, but I wanted to overcome my fear because if you avoided than it gets worst, but once you do it everything it gets very easy. I took therapy on May of last year and I consume that marriage on October, by the end of it, and I found out that I was pregnant on November 22 of 2015 and I just had my baby 2 months ago (maybe less). Therapy helps you to control your mind and it helps to overcome your fear. Is possible!! believe me. I though that it wasnt, I was afraid of not having a baby because we wanted family. My husband was afraid of not having a family, we argue for the same thing and we were going to divorce but we decide to fight for it and here we are. You are going to be fine. You can do it. :)
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Hello Anonymous....
September 4, 2016 - 7:14amI was in the same boat as you. I was not able to have sex with my husband for 2 years. It was very hard, when we were going to have sex I started screaming, I was really scared of the PAIN. But the pain is not bad. My first time, I try to relax and I try to control my mind, thats how therapy help me. Because if you think negative than the outcome is negative but if you tell your mind that is going to be ok and the outcome is going to be postive. When I had sex it took time, but I wanted to overcome my fear because if you avoided than it gets worst, but once you do it everything it gets very easy. I took therapy on May of last year and I consume that marriage on October, by the end of it, and I found out that I was pregnant on November 22 of 2015 and I just had my baby 2 months ago (maybe less). Therapy helps you to control your mind and it helps to overcome your fear. Is possible!! believe me. I though that it wasnt, I was afraid of not having a baby because we wanted family. My husband was afraid of not having a family, we argue for the same thing and we were going to divorce but we decide to fight for it and here we are. You are going to be fine. You can do it. :)
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