I understand! I didn't have intercourse with my husband for the first 8months of my marriage. I was terrified. Cried. Yelled. It hurt him. I was hurt. I was abused when I was younger and came into my marriage as a virgin. I was so scared. Talking with others helped. Counseling would be helpful. There is help out there for it. Your fear is understandable. I get it. I also prayed a lot. Plus, it hurts mentally and emotionally. After 8months, I made a mental decision to just do it and I jumped on him and came down on him. So I co trolled the pain. It helped. It was mental. I had to get my mind made up. But him on top never worked. I was terrified. It took me 8months. I still have trouble a little with him on top. Or even getting any vaginal exam. We're now almost 1 year in our marriage. And we're pregnant. So you will overcome!!!
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I understand! I didn't have intercourse with my husband for the first 8months of my marriage. I was terrified. Cried. Yelled. It hurt him. I was hurt. I was abused when I was younger and came into my marriage as a virgin. I was so scared. Talking with others helped. Counseling would be helpful. There is help out there for it. Your fear is understandable. I get it. I also prayed a lot. Plus, it hurts mentally and emotionally. After 8months, I made a mental decision to just do it and I jumped on him and came down on him. So I co trolled the pain. It helped. It was mental. I had to get my mind made up. But him on top never worked. I was terrified. It took me 8months. I still have trouble a little with him on top. Or even getting any vaginal exam. We're now almost 1 year in our marriage. And we're pregnant. So you will overcome!!!
June 18, 2015 - 3:50pmThis Comment
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