Hi,
I have been married for four months and the same problem is occurring with me, except I'm a man. It may seem strange for you ladies to see me write on here but I need help, guidance, and encouragement so my wife doesn't think something is wrong with her. I have been searching several men forums and blogs but none discuss this relevant issue.
My wife and I have foreplay and I am romantic with her. She tells me that she is secure with me. However, when I am trying to insert into her she tightens up and she does not make her natural lubricant. I can barely get in. We visited a obgyn and she inserted a device into my wife larger than my penis into my wife and opened her up. This was to assure my wife that her vagina wasn't too small or that nothing was wrong with her. That slightly helped for a moment and then it was back to non-entry.
At this point, I want to share this sexual experience with my wife but I am more concerned with helping her through this rather than my sexual pleasures. What can I do to help her through this process in the bedroom and outside the bedroom? What are some of the pitfalls that I must avoid? How long has after some of you ladies received advice that you made progress? What are a few of the best things I can do for her right now? Thank you
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Hi,
September 16, 2012 - 10:07pmI have been married for four months and the same problem is occurring with me, except I'm a man. It may seem strange for you ladies to see me write on here but I need help, guidance, and encouragement so my wife doesn't think something is wrong with her. I have been searching several men forums and blogs but none discuss this relevant issue.
My wife and I have foreplay and I am romantic with her. She tells me that she is secure with me. However, when I am trying to insert into her she tightens up and she does not make her natural lubricant. I can barely get in. We visited a obgyn and she inserted a device into my wife larger than my penis into my wife and opened her up. This was to assure my wife that her vagina wasn't too small or that nothing was wrong with her. That slightly helped for a moment and then it was back to non-entry.
At this point, I want to share this sexual experience with my wife but I am more concerned with helping her through this rather than my sexual pleasures. What can I do to help her through this process in the bedroom and outside the bedroom? What are some of the pitfalls that I must avoid? How long has after some of you ladies received advice that you made progress? What are a few of the best things I can do for her right now? Thank you
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