What about self made porn? Pornographic materials people produce themselves with them selves and then share with others? How is that exploitive? Why are we as a society so dependant on the sex + love duality? I mean we accept that love without sex is possible and even desirable, so why do we denegrate sex without love? And why do we equat masturbation with "self love"? Our whole society is full of negative affirmations re pleasure and enjoyment. Sex addiction is a myth, and needs to be discredited.