there is a need for All of us to be more GENEROUS in our experience and judgements of each other. When we say "she is a slut" or "she eats too much" or " he is just using her", we are reducing both ourselves and those we are judging. We each make moment to moment decisions; we all hope and pray for good choices and outcomes. Sometimes the choices and outcomes are ok, no one is the worst off, and sometimes we fuck up and sparks fly. Woops! Judgements from friends and family are never helpful. Unconditional acceptance and humor are good!
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there is a need for All of us to be more GENEROUS in our experience and judgements of each other. When we say "she is a slut" or "she eats too much" or " he is just using her", we are reducing both ourselves and those we are judging. We each make moment to moment decisions; we all hope and pray for good choices and outcomes. Sometimes the choices and outcomes are ok, no one is the worst off, and sometimes we fuck up and sparks fly. Woops! Judgements from friends and family are never helpful. Unconditional acceptance and humor are good!
December 22, 2009 - 7:55amThis Comment
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