Hello everyone :)
But most special "Miss kitty".
Thank you for posting your question & sorry I can be of no help due to my inexperience of life as well as my current similar situation. I'd also like to know what was the outcome of your situation.
I have read this question as well as answers & opinions of others. I myself am encountering a similar problem with my boyfriend of 3 years. Obviously in the beginning of most relationships there is the "honeymoon" stage. With that said for at least the first 2 years "ish" the sex has slowly decreased but was still up to the quantity I desired. Now the last, let's say 2-4 months it has almost diminished. We have not had sex for about a month including a week of healing from surgery I had. (Also he has been lying about hanging with his friends that I don't like & we got past that recently,as well as how he was going to bikini baristas. but now I feel if he lies about that what else?)
So tonight we decided to have sex? That sounds stupid why would anyone have to basically say, "let's have sex." Or his innuendo "take off your clothes" or "get naked".... Something like that. Anyways were into for a good ten minute, with minor four play first, then like I said were like 10-20 minutes in & I knew he wouldn't come. Which happens occasionally. I figured with the lack of intimacy it would have been easier but apparently not.
Back to the point were both 20 years young (my optimism) & we been together since our teens & have had our trials & tribulations but I've asked why & talked about it the right way & explain how I felt with the response of, " I work a lot & I like to come home relax & sleep." It all just makes me feel like ugly & not loved & just feels like maybe there's better? Basically feel inadequate now but I still try...
Well how hard is it to relax for at least 5-7 hrs before bed with a clean house & cooked meals as well as giving him personal time without bothering him while he plays games or sits on Craigslist looking at trucks etc.?
I also have taken initiative several times. I also am by no means unattractive. I am 5' petite, blonde collarbone length hair, green eyes & 101.2lbs to be exact. So what is it? Another female? am I boring?.. I don't think so..is it his work load? Like what male does not want to be intimate with their lover best friend at least once a week?? Please tell me! Or help me!
Thanks for reading & comments ahead of time for reading my obvious novel above.
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Hello everyone :)
But most special "Miss kitty".
Thank you for posting your question & sorry I can be of no help due to my inexperience of life as well as my current similar situation. I'd also like to know what was the outcome of your situation.
I have read this question as well as answers & opinions of others. I myself am encountering a similar problem with my boyfriend of 3 years. Obviously in the beginning of most relationships there is the "honeymoon" stage. With that said for at least the first 2 years "ish" the sex has slowly decreased but was still up to the quantity I desired. Now the last, let's say 2-4 months it has almost diminished. We have not had sex for about a month including a week of healing from surgery I had. (Also he has been lying about hanging with his friends that I don't like & we got past that recently,as well as how he was going to bikini baristas. but now I feel if he lies about that what else?)
November 5, 2011 - 4:28amSo tonight we decided to have sex? That sounds stupid why would anyone have to basically say, "let's have sex." Or his innuendo "take off your clothes" or "get naked".... Something like that. Anyways were into for a good ten minute, with minor four play first, then like I said were like 10-20 minutes in & I knew he wouldn't come. Which happens occasionally. I figured with the lack of intimacy it would have been easier but apparently not.
Back to the point were both 20 years young (my optimism) & we been together since our teens & have had our trials & tribulations but I've asked why & talked about it the right way & explain how I felt with the response of, " I work a lot & I like to come home relax & sleep." It all just makes me feel like ugly & not loved & just feels like maybe there's better? Basically feel inadequate now but I still try...
Well how hard is it to relax for at least 5-7 hrs before bed with a clean house & cooked meals as well as giving him personal time without bothering him while he plays games or sits on Craigslist looking at trucks etc.?
I also have taken initiative several times. I also am by no means unattractive. I am 5' petite, blonde collarbone length hair, green eyes & 101.2lbs to be exact. So what is it? Another female? am I boring?.. I don't think so..is it his work load? Like what male does not want to be intimate with their lover best friend at least once a week?? Please tell me! Or help me!
Thanks for reading & comments ahead of time for reading my obvious novel above.
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