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I have the same problem.. he has been my bf for 1 year and 9 months now.. usually, he's the one who comes up and initiates sex but lately, he doesn't anymore.. i mean, he does some fondling, we kiss passionately, but it doesn't end up with sex anymore. He lives an hour away from me and we both go to different colleges so we don't get to see each other all the time, maybe just once a week and almost always, we have sex..but lately, it's been dull sex (he finishes quickly like maybe he doesn't enjoy it with me anymore) to no sex at all. I don't know what's going through his mind coz I feel ashamed to confront him about it and I don't want to seem too forward and aggressive.. but it's really bothering me and it makes me feel so depressed and inadequate, like maybe I'm not hot enough or maybe it's because lately, my pimples have been acting up again (but I already had pimples when we first gone out so I'm puzzled). or maybe he's cheating on me which I hope he isn't coz I love him so much. either way, I am disappointed with my relationship right now and I just want us to be like we were before.. :( I'm not gonna cheat on him for the lack of sex, but I might consider leaving him coz I feel that he doesn't want me anymore.. I know it's best to ask him about it, but how do I ask him in an appropriate way? oh Lord help me..