I have the same thing going on right now. Ive been living with my boyfriend for over 6months and been with him for about a year. We used to have sex alot,like 1-3xs a day, now its down to 1x a week.Ive tried everything to get him interested like dressing sexy,cooking for him, coming on to him,you name it.Just now I tried to come onto him and he pushed me out of the way becasue he couldnt see the tv.I cant tell you enough how much this hurts me.Im in very good shape and when we go out other guys look at me so I dont think thats the issue. He says he loves me and does spend most his free time with me however,he seems to get angry when I ask him why we dont have as much sex anymore. Ive tried to talk to him about it and he gets defensive. I feel horrible and Im so confused at why this is happening. Its really trashing my self esteem. He says hes tired or he feels sick, or hes stressed about work, or his back hurts, or leg hurts, or you name it he has every excuse in the book why we cant have sex.I know he thinks the sex is good so i dont even think thats the issue. please help me sort this out. I do love him however I dont think i can deal with this much longer and its making me feel really bad about myself.If it doesnt get sorted out im afraid I will have to leave him.
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I have the same thing going on right now. Ive been living with my boyfriend for over 6months and been with him for about a year. We used to have sex alot,like 1-3xs a day, now its down to 1x a week.Ive tried everything to get him interested like dressing sexy,cooking for him, coming on to him,you name it.Just now I tried to come onto him and he pushed me out of the way becasue he couldnt see the tv.I cant tell you enough how much this hurts me.Im in very good shape and when we go out other guys look at me so I dont think thats the issue. He says he loves me and does spend most his free time with me however,he seems to get angry when I ask him why we dont have as much sex anymore. Ive tried to talk to him about it and he gets defensive. I feel horrible and Im so confused at why this is happening. Its really trashing my self esteem. He says hes tired or he feels sick, or hes stressed about work, or his back hurts, or leg hurts, or you name it he has every excuse in the book why we cant have sex.I know he thinks the sex is good so i dont even think thats the issue. please help me sort this out. I do love him however I dont think i can deal with this much longer and its making me feel really bad about myself.If it doesnt get sorted out im afraid I will have to leave him.
October 16, 2011 - 11:21pmThis Comment
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