My problem is similar. My boyfriend of the last year has completely stopped coming on to me. It was very sudden about 6 months ago and I don't know why. The only time he wants to have sex now is when he wakes up in the morning, and even that is very rare... and fast. I have tried to talk to him about it, but understandably he gets very defensive and blames his anxiety medication. But he was taking that long before we met so I cant believe that. The first few months of our relationship was not like this. He is constantly complimenting me and saying how good I look, taking note of the current weight I have lost, etc. it doesn't seem to matter though how I dress or try to entice him nothing seems to work. I get him hard often but he does nothing with it. He makes no moves to go any further. Now recently I have found porn on our computer. I am 5'7 and only 150 pounds. I have lost weight in the last month so I can't imagine it is my appearance that has become a turn off. I am so frustrated and sad by this. I am a very sexual person. I love sex. I made this clear to him from the start and he delivered. What has changed? What am I doing.. or not doing? Please help!!!
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My problem is similar. My boyfriend of the last year has completely stopped coming on to me. It was very sudden about 6 months ago and I don't know why. The only time he wants to have sex now is when he wakes up in the morning, and even that is very rare... and fast. I have tried to talk to him about it, but understandably he gets very defensive and blames his anxiety medication. But he was taking that long before we met so I cant believe that. The first few months of our relationship was not like this. He is constantly complimenting me and saying how good I look, taking note of the current weight I have lost, etc. it doesn't seem to matter though how I dress or try to entice him nothing seems to work. I get him hard often but he does nothing with it. He makes no moves to go any further. Now recently I have found porn on our computer. I am 5'7 and only 150 pounds. I have lost weight in the last month so I can't imagine it is my appearance that has become a turn off. I am so frustrated and sad by this. I am a very sexual person. I love sex. I made this clear to him from the start and he delivered. What has changed? What am I doing.. or not doing? Please help!!!
September 4, 2011 - 3:58amThis Comment
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