What will make YOU happy? Will you be happy living in a house with him and having babies?
Its only been 4 months. There is no need to rush on anything.
A guy who goes overseas and comes back acting all distant and less sexually active with his girlfriend is odd to me.
It all depends how long he has been overseas. Is it part of his job?
Does he go for school or vacational?
You should always trust your boyfriend UNTIL he breaks your trust. If he hasn't done anything, or shows he hasn't, then keep trusting him.
How are you going to trust him if he keeps going overseas? Can you live with that? Do you believe him when he says he was into a girl before you? Or do you think he met her overseas?
Now, let's think about you.....
I think you should stop prying him, asking him and getting on his case if you have. It only makes it worst. Wait until he crawls out of his shell.
Do you own thing, find what makes you happy instead of thinking about him all the time. You sound needy, and you aren't needy, missy. You are a strong woman who wants to be with someone who loves you and whom you can trust. If he is your guy, then don't worry about it and worry about your own goals before you worry about your future goals with him.
If he loves you, he won't leave, cheat or play with you. You just need to put yourself first before you think about him. And then he will realize you may do just fine without him, which will make him actually try and do what he says he will do.
Remember, thrive for a guy who is doing, not saying. Many just say things, but look out for his actions and listen to your feelings when you observe them. Don't question him about them, just find the anwer yourself. What you feel is what matters.
Nat.
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What will make YOU happy? Will you be happy living in a house with him and having babies?
August 17, 2011 - 11:27pmIts only been 4 months. There is no need to rush on anything.
A guy who goes overseas and comes back acting all distant and less sexually active with his girlfriend is odd to me.
It all depends how long he has been overseas. Is it part of his job?
Does he go for school or vacational?
You should always trust your boyfriend UNTIL he breaks your trust. If he hasn't done anything, or shows he hasn't, then keep trusting him.
How are you going to trust him if he keeps going overseas? Can you live with that? Do you believe him when he says he was into a girl before you? Or do you think he met her overseas?
Now, let's think about you.....
I think you should stop prying him, asking him and getting on his case if you have. It only makes it worst. Wait until he crawls out of his shell.
Do you own thing, find what makes you happy instead of thinking about him all the time. You sound needy, and you aren't needy, missy. You are a strong woman who wants to be with someone who loves you and whom you can trust. If he is your guy, then don't worry about it and worry about your own goals before you worry about your future goals with him.
If he loves you, he won't leave, cheat or play with you. You just need to put yourself first before you think about him. And then he will realize you may do just fine without him, which will make him actually try and do what he says he will do.
Remember, thrive for a guy who is doing, not saying. Many just say things, but look out for his actions and listen to your feelings when you observe them. Don't question him about them, just find the anwer yourself. What you feel is what matters.
Nat.
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