I'm having a same situation too. My bf and I have been together nearly 4months now. The first two weeks, we had sex 3times/day and almost everyday but he was really hardly come.
After he came back from Overseas, He has to deal with his debts, need to pay it off, lost his licence for 4months and work overtime everday. He was starting changed. Our sexual life was starting less and less. I asked him "Honey, is it you are not interest having sex with me or Im not attractive enough to turn you on?". He said "No, I really interesting having sex with you, just because I'm so tired, so stress out atm, that's y". After that, I don't even get 1 from him in 2weeks :(
I also found some text, calls of him and some1 else from overseas and some pics of the girl on the laptop as well (after he back from holiday but had been deleted). I brought it out and talked to him about it, I even told him that I don't trust him at all, not even 20% and I really need a break. But he told me that was a girl he know before me. He said he didn't serious with me like all the girls he was be with. But now he found out he loves me and will fix the problem, never let it happen again; didn't cheat on me or do something behind me, he said. He also promised that he will do something to make me trust him again.
Look, we see each other everyday, do things together, solve the problem together. He also plan to get a house next year, then i move in live with him, then have babies together.
LOL>..... I really don't know what i can do? so lost atm :( Is he love me thro???
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I'm having a same situation too. My bf and I have been together nearly 4months now. The first two weeks, we had sex 3times/day and almost everyday but he was really hardly come.
August 16, 2011 - 7:59pmAfter he came back from Overseas, He has to deal with his debts, need to pay it off, lost his licence for 4months and work overtime everday. He was starting changed. Our sexual life was starting less and less. I asked him "Honey, is it you are not interest having sex with me or Im not attractive enough to turn you on?". He said "No, I really interesting having sex with you, just because I'm so tired, so stress out atm, that's y". After that, I don't even get 1 from him in 2weeks :(
I also found some text, calls of him and some1 else from overseas and some pics of the girl on the laptop as well (after he back from holiday but had been deleted). I brought it out and talked to him about it, I even told him that I don't trust him at all, not even 20% and I really need a break. But he told me that was a girl he know before me. He said he didn't serious with me like all the girls he was be with. But now he found out he loves me and will fix the problem, never let it happen again; didn't cheat on me or do something behind me, he said. He also promised that he will do something to make me trust him again.
Look, we see each other everyday, do things together, solve the problem together. He also plan to get a house next year, then i move in live with him, then have babies together.
LOL>..... I really don't know what i can do? so lost atm :( Is he love me thro???
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