I am the girl who posted on July 29th I believe, and is "blind".
Well, as it turns out, my boyfriend was getting sex from someone else and a week ago, he wanted a break.
I said to him, "Here's your break, fu** off you bastard" and I got rid of all contact and everything that reminded me of him. He is nonexistant now. Stupid idiot didn;t have the balls to tell me for over a month that he was drifting and seeing someone else when clearly, my tuition told me so. Listen to your tuition ladies. We have it for a reason. We can smell something is up a mile away. Don't think he is stressed and isn't getting any sex at all. Men love sex just as much as we do, and if he hasn't slept with you for almost a month, something is really wrong.
And the more you pry him, the more he backs away and then when he does back away, he will often blame you and you may believe him. "You were going crazy and i can't handle that," was my Now EX's excuse, but he is manipulative and he wasn't man enough to say that it was his issue. I'm so happy I got out of that mess. I hated being anxious all the time just because my man was being a dick. Not my problem anymore. I only wasted 5 months of my life. I hope you don't wast more than that.
Nat
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I am the girl who posted on July 29th I believe, and is "blind".
August 9, 2011 - 10:20pmWell, as it turns out, my boyfriend was getting sex from someone else and a week ago, he wanted a break.
I said to him, "Here's your break, fu** off you bastard" and I got rid of all contact and everything that reminded me of him. He is nonexistant now. Stupid idiot didn;t have the balls to tell me for over a month that he was drifting and seeing someone else when clearly, my tuition told me so. Listen to your tuition ladies. We have it for a reason. We can smell something is up a mile away. Don't think he is stressed and isn't getting any sex at all. Men love sex just as much as we do, and if he hasn't slept with you for almost a month, something is really wrong.
And the more you pry him, the more he backs away and then when he does back away, he will often blame you and you may believe him. "You were going crazy and i can't handle that," was my Now EX's excuse, but he is manipulative and he wasn't man enough to say that it was his issue. I'm so happy I got out of that mess. I hated being anxious all the time just because my man was being a dick. Not my problem anymore. I only wasted 5 months of my life. I hope you don't wast more than that.
Nat
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