Never claimed to be a smart guy but just giving my opinion out of frustration but as always when things does not go your way , you get mad ad you just keep on finding reasons to explain the fact that you want to control (read a little bit some of the ladies comments).
Have you heard of patience ??? and where do you put love in this?
Because he does not give me sex (especially for the one married) i am contemplating cheating or ending the relation ... Me, i call that selfishness. And surprisingly very few tell them that a relation is not only sex and having the person do what YOU think there are supposed to.
A man can think of you being controlling when you allow sex frequently in your terms (this is something that build up a slowly and hurt us as human being .Because we also have feelings).
That is one of the reason they turn to porn because there is no rejection in porn. Seeing you begging for it is very satisfactory because they have a feeling of regained power. But unfortunately for you their already hooked up in porn (and believe me or not you helped turn him into what he became) . I am just sharing one of the things i think can be a reason .
Thanks .
And for the "i am far from controlling" that's just what YOU think.
From your "smart guy".
PS: not a native English speaker.
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Never claimed to be a smart guy but just giving my opinion out of frustration but as always when things does not go your way , you get mad ad you just keep on finding reasons to explain the fact that you want to control (read a little bit some of the ladies comments).
July 6, 2011 - 5:57pmHave you heard of patience ??? and where do you put love in this?
Because he does not give me sex (especially for the one married) i am contemplating cheating or ending the relation ... Me, i call that selfishness. And surprisingly very few tell them that a relation is not only sex and having the person do what YOU think there are supposed to.
A man can think of you being controlling when you allow sex frequently in your terms (this is something that build up a slowly and hurt us as human being .Because we also have feelings).
That is one of the reason they turn to porn because there is no rejection in porn. Seeing you begging for it is very satisfactory because they have a feeling of regained power. But unfortunately for you their already hooked up in porn (and believe me or not you helped turn him into what he became) . I am just sharing one of the things i think can be a reason .
Thanks .
And for the "i am far from controlling" that's just what YOU think.
From your "smart guy".
PS: not a native English speaker.
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