I am goin thru a similar situation. My bf of almost 2 years was away in Iraq for a year. I assumed that when he came home, we would be in the bedroom the first few days of him being back. It didn't happen until 3 months after his return and he was drunk when we did it. I have sat him down and talked to him about it and how intimacy is a part of a healthy relationship. I don't expect it multiple times a day or every day but it would be nice to get it once a week. I go out with my gf's every once in a while and I am contantly getting hit on by guys so I know I am still attractive. I just wish I was attractive to him. When I ask him about this he ignores me or changes the subject. Its very frusterating. I have gone as far as to tell him that if he doesn't start fulfilling my needs in the bedroom, I will find it elsewhere. I don't want that and if it does come to cheating on him, I would just end the relationship completely. I just want to be happy.
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I am goin thru a similar situation. My bf of almost 2 years was away in Iraq for a year. I assumed that when he came home, we would be in the bedroom the first few days of him being back. It didn't happen until 3 months after his return and he was drunk when we did it. I have sat him down and talked to him about it and how intimacy is a part of a healthy relationship. I don't expect it multiple times a day or every day but it would be nice to get it once a week. I go out with my gf's every once in a while and I am contantly getting hit on by guys so I know I am still attractive. I just wish I was attractive to him. When I ask him about this he ignores me or changes the subject. Its very frusterating. I have gone as far as to tell him that if he doesn't start fulfilling my needs in the bedroom, I will find it elsewhere. I don't want that and if it does come to cheating on him, I would just end the relationship completely. I just want to be happy.
July 4, 2011 - 11:43amThis Comment
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