Sexual incompatibility can be a deal breaker in any relationship if you can't find middle ground with your partner. Self-stimulation would be one workaround, or ask your boyfriend to help you feel more connected. If he won't budge on helping you to feel satisfied, and not ashamed of your needs, I believe there may be a better match out there for you, but it's your call. You may want to do some soul searching to decide how invested you truly are in this relationship. If you need intimacy (not unrealistic at all), and your boyfriend claims he doesn't, that is a fundamental difference. You've got to do what's right for you in this regard. I understand it won't be easy either way, but if you are following through with what you know you need to be happy, then it will be worth it.
Good luck, and let us know how you're doing.
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Sexual incompatibility can be a deal breaker in any relationship if you can't find middle ground with your partner. Self-stimulation would be one workaround, or ask your boyfriend to help you feel more connected. If he won't budge on helping you to feel satisfied, and not ashamed of your needs, I believe there may be a better match out there for you, but it's your call. You may want to do some soul searching to decide how invested you truly are in this relationship. If you need intimacy (not unrealistic at all), and your boyfriend claims he doesn't, that is a fundamental difference. You've got to do what's right for you in this regard. I understand it won't be easy either way, but if you are following through with what you know you need to be happy, then it will be worth it.
January 11, 2011 - 8:29amGood luck, and let us know how you're doing.
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