AtYou are so closed minded it's unreal not every Guy is like that. I am a man and had a problem with wanting sex because of all the other things that were going on at the time. My girl thought I was cheating or didn't want her but that was not the case. The problem was me not wanting to be or seem week and vulnerable with my problems. I'm a man I can take care of it I said nut there is a point when too much is too much and you have to realize that they can help you and they want to know how your feeling. It is a hard one to get over but on the otherside is a true relationship. Two poeple who love each other working together and not putting up there walls so they can't see you are human too. Everyone has problems now and again and its nice to now that you have someone who understands.