I've been with my man for just over 2 years, at first we were at it like rabbits then March last year i had a miscarriage and since then everything has stopped. He kisses me and cuddles me but can't keep an erection and sometimes struggles even getting one. We have now gone 2 months without sex (the longest time) and i'm now starting to resent him i've tried the whole dressing up looking after my appearance and it doesn't make a scrap of difference. He said he's going to see the doctor about it but this never happens. I understand some men do go through erection problems but even if they are struggling why does the intimate touching stop too? If he was still touching me sexually then i would know that it wasn't me. He gets angry when i use my vibrator but i am a very sexual person and i do need to ease the tension from time to time. It's making me a very unhappy person and i'm starting to show signs at work (snapping and no patience) my friends are even starting to say i'm not the same person anymore. I love him so much and when i think about leaving him i feel sick because i know i don't want to be without him and i don't want to find someone on the side to satisfy me because i couldn't hurt him in that way. I am so fed up and spend most days hiding away to have a good cry.
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I've been with my man for just over 2 years, at first we were at it like rabbits then March last year i had a miscarriage and since then everything has stopped. He kisses me and cuddles me but can't keep an erection and sometimes struggles even getting one. We have now gone 2 months without sex (the longest time) and i'm now starting to resent him i've tried the whole dressing up looking after my appearance and it doesn't make a scrap of difference. He said he's going to see the doctor about it but this never happens. I understand some men do go through erection problems but even if they are struggling why does the intimate touching stop too? If he was still touching me sexually then i would know that it wasn't me. He gets angry when i use my vibrator but i am a very sexual person and i do need to ease the tension from time to time. It's making me a very unhappy person and i'm starting to show signs at work (snapping and no patience) my friends are even starting to say i'm not the same person anymore. I love him so much and when i think about leaving him i feel sick because i know i don't want to be without him and i don't want to find someone on the side to satisfy me because i couldn't hurt him in that way. I am so fed up and spend most days hiding away to have a good cry.
December 3, 2010 - 1:14amThis Comment
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