That's always how it is with life... It's not Karma getting back at you for something, it's life making you stronger. I know it sounds like a bunch of fluff, but, it is true. Just make sure you communicate now, before you get married, you want to make sure this is what the both of you really want, let him know how you feel, what you feel, and especially what you don't feel. And ask him why he wants to marry you.. Don't settle for the"because I love you babe " lines... If he tries to answer with "I love, you complete me, and all those other very charming lines, make sure you ask a followup question like, "well, babe, why do you love me, how do I make you complete..?" That's shaky, I know, because guys hate answering serious questions... But this will soon be your husband, and better to ask now, than after you say "I do".
Get him to talk, don't be afraid to ask him questions, if he really loves you, he will answer to the very best of his ability. He shouldn't be too defensive, but keep in mind, your wedding is in a few months, so he may question your reasons for the questions, and even though you are ready, he may or may not be ready, this isn't something to guess about, you love him, so you don't want to pressure him, you want him to be happy with or without you. Tell him this. Good luck, I truly understand your situation, and wish the best.
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That's always how it is with life... It's not Karma getting back at you for something, it's life making you stronger. I know it sounds like a bunch of fluff, but, it is true. Just make sure you communicate now, before you get married, you want to make sure this is what the both of you really want, let him know how you feel, what you feel, and especially what you don't feel. And ask him why he wants to marry you.. Don't settle for the"because I love you babe " lines... If he tries to answer with "I love, you complete me, and all those other very charming lines, make sure you ask a followup question like, "well, babe, why do you love me, how do I make you complete..?" That's shaky, I know, because guys hate answering serious questions... But this will soon be your husband, and better to ask now, than after you say "I do".
Get him to talk, don't be afraid to ask him questions, if he really loves you, he will answer to the very best of his ability. He shouldn't be too defensive, but keep in mind, your wedding is in a few months, so he may question your reasons for the questions, and even though you are ready, he may or may not be ready, this isn't something to guess about, you love him, so you don't want to pressure him, you want him to be happy with or without you. Tell him this. Good luck, I truly understand your situation, and wish the best.
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September 19, 2010 - 12:17amThis Comment
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