Wow, this is all so disscuraging...I have been having the same problem and reading some of these posts has just really made me even more upset about it. For so long now I have been trying to convince myself that my problem wasn't that bad or that it was just because he has gained alot of weight in the past couple years...but I can't help feeling that he doesn't find me attractive anymore. I mean, heavier guys want sex too, right? Several months ago I found out that he has been watching porn. After I got over the initial feelings of hurt (from being almost completely left out of his sexual life) I decided to try to be accepting. I had a video playing when he came home from work one night. It actually made for a very fun night...and couple of weeks. But after a short while, things went right back to normal. I don't know what to do!! I feel like I have already tried everything (and trust me, I almost have). He tells me that the truth is, he just doesn't want it as much as he used to...maybe that's true but what if he really just doesn't want it from ME anymore?? I am at a loss...we are supposed to be getting married in two months and as far as he is concerned, things are just peachy. Not for me though...I don't want to enter into a marriage were I don't even feel loved. Why does it have to be that every guy I know tells me that I'm sexy and how much they would live to be with me, but the one I love and want doesn't want to have sex with me more than once in a blue moon? I must done something cosmically terrible to deserve such a fate.
At least it feels good to get all this off my chest.
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Wow, this is all so disscuraging...I have been having the same problem and reading some of these posts has just really made me even more upset about it. For so long now I have been trying to convince myself that my problem wasn't that bad or that it was just because he has gained alot of weight in the past couple years...but I can't help feeling that he doesn't find me attractive anymore. I mean, heavier guys want sex too, right? Several months ago I found out that he has been watching porn. After I got over the initial feelings of hurt (from being almost completely left out of his sexual life) I decided to try to be accepting. I had a video playing when he came home from work one night. It actually made for a very fun night...and couple of weeks. But after a short while, things went right back to normal. I don't know what to do!! I feel like I have already tried everything (and trust me, I almost have). He tells me that the truth is, he just doesn't want it as much as he used to...maybe that's true but what if he really just doesn't want it from ME anymore?? I am at a loss...we are supposed to be getting married in two months and as far as he is concerned, things are just peachy. Not for me though...I don't want to enter into a marriage were I don't even feel loved. Why does it have to be that every guy I know tells me that I'm sexy and how much they would live to be with me, but the one I love and want doesn't want to have sex with me more than once in a blue moon? I must done something cosmically terrible to deserve such a fate.
August 19, 2010 - 10:56pmAt least it feels good to get all this off my chest.
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