No sex isn't every thing in a relationship, but damn we are the girls in it, guys are supposed to want us, we are not supposed to beg them. We are supposed to be the ones that tell them no. Its does make you feel so unwanted and ugly. I have been through this before, it hurts so bad. If they are so bored or what ever the problem is, they should tell us not make us feel like we are not shit to them.