I know exactly how you feel. I have been with my fiance for almost 3 years and it seems like I have to beg for it, and I am a girl I shouldn't have to beg for it. He is not cheating on me we are together all the time. I guess that he is just bored with me. We broke up in november and he couldn't keep his hands off of me and now it went to maybe 1 or 2 times a month. I really wish that I could find out whats up. He tells me to make moves but when I do I feel like I pushing him to do it. And that's not the way that it should be in a relationship, if he don't want me I just want him to tell me, because what kind of relationship can you have when you dont have a good sex life. I am getting tired of taking care of myself, I want to feel him inside me. And its not that I just want sex, cause thats not the deal I want him. And it seems like the more that he tells me no or he doesn't try the more that I want him. I just wish that I has some kind of magical book to give me all the answers.