I feel ya! im 22 too, and my bf is 26. I have literally showed up in lingerie and a 6 pack of beer and he acted as if it was chore to have sex with me! I've brought it up a couple times now and it is REALLY wearing on my self esteem. We've been together for over 4 yrs now and I was contemplating marriage. This issue is changing my mind, he hasnt asked by now, so im not sure if its what he wants, and then im not sure if not having sex as often as i want is a big enough reason to throw these years away. He's brought up buying a house together and having children... though im pretty sure you have to have sex to have kids!!!... We live together so I know he's not cheating, we both go to work and come home, we spend every other minute together. But i DO NOT want to bring this issue up again, i dont think i should have to. Having sex once a month is not working out... help!