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I am gong through a similar issue. I am 31 and my boyfriend is 28. we have been together for 2 years now and lately I feel like I have to make a big deal out of sex in order for him to do it. I feel like something is wrong or something is going on. he should be in his prime. so why doesn't he want to have sex anymore. he says it's nothing. but why do I feel like it is. we use to do it all the time. we have been living together for about 8 months now and for the past 3 months, I feel like I'm begging for it. like he feels bad for me. I enjoy sex. he should too. it really upsets me because I don't know what's going on. I don't want to talk about it with my friends, b/c I'm embarrassed. it shouldn't be this way. you always read about how men have this sex drive. well where is it? in the past week I have found all this porn on the computer, would he really rather look at porn than the real thing?is he cheating? I try talking about it, but he gets mad. it's a turnoff when I get upset like this. well this is a serious thing. it's an issue. sex is important. its not everything but its a big part of a relationship.