We went for almost 2 months no sex, and I had come out of a 20yr marriage with NO Sex for 10 years! There is no easy answer since everyone is different. But this did Work for Me! ok Change your daily routeen. Fix your hair different ,wear your makeup different. (this is to get his Attention) buy yourself a new sexy but classy outfit, or pull somehting out of the closet that will make his eyes pop, tight pants, breasts pushed up so he can really see them, or at least peek at them! Now be sweet to him and helpful . Use "body language" very important. and walk with confidence! practice sexy face expressions in the mirror, especailly looking and acting with confidence as you BE Sexy!. Look in the mirror and LIKE who you see! YOU! now go into public with this new sexy attitude, smile, be confident. You may even notice a few looks from other men ! Now do not give your man so much attention, kind of ignore him a little(men LOVEa little mystery in a woman) THIS IS THE KEY . but do give him flirty looks Here is another thing if you go out to the store where ever either alone or with your man , "Take" this sexy , confident, dressed hot, New YOU out with you.lol Others will notice you And when your man notices others looking at you HE will pay more attention to you. Do not act "slutty " there is a difference. But if you Do get your man's attention whisper in his ear , "The things I want to do to You Baby , mmmn" Then walk away fast! if he doesn't follow you and ask you "what do you want to do to me?" Just give it a few days , maybe even a week. and remember be patient , very important. Remember you got to spice it up a bit, he is probably in a slump, and down in the dumps, ok.
Remember don't just Act happy Be Happy. Love yourself and others will too. And if he doesn't well then maybe it is time to take a good look at things and decide is This really for me or do I Deserve to be happy with someone who will give back ,not just take all the time. do not argue do not talk about ANYTHING that is negative! I found This was KILLING our relationship. Don't get discouraged if you dress up sexy in a teddy and he is not ready for action. Be sweet to him. Give him a goodnight kiss he won't forget and touch him briefly down there. That usually puts a guy on the right track and it does take some work. Say,"I love honey" and slide your tongue across your upper lips! when in bed say goodnight baby, and kiss him 3 times on the back of his neck. There are so many things you can do. I got so frustrated and cried, and even That didn't work. But this plan I listed above got his attention fast! also when he noticed other guys checking me out and talking to me it got him interrested in me again, BUT DO NOT Try to get him jealous on purpose!EVER! this NEVER works!. we now have sex at least 2x's a week ,but I love how he now likes to cuddle with me, try that. say I just want to snuggle with you and then when he does, slide your hand on his leg massaging it gently. Also You get involved with other things, going places, reading a great book after all you deserve it. If he really loves you he will come around. Use what God gave you (no not your looks lol) the Art of "persuassion!" read about it and how to use your voice in a calm, sexy, sweet way to convince him he's got to have you ! Think it , see it ,believe it, and it Will happen
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We went for almost 2 months no sex, and I had come out of a 20yr marriage with NO Sex for 10 years! There is no easy answer since everyone is different. But this did Work for Me! ok Change your daily routeen. Fix your hair different ,wear your makeup different. (this is to get his Attention) buy yourself a new sexy but classy outfit, or pull somehting out of the closet that will make his eyes pop, tight pants, breasts pushed up so he can really see them, or at least peek at them! Now be sweet to him and helpful . Use "body language" very important. and walk with confidence! practice sexy face expressions in the mirror, especailly looking and acting with confidence as you BE Sexy!. Look in the mirror and LIKE who you see! YOU! now go into public with this new sexy attitude, smile, be confident. You may even notice a few looks from other men ! Now do not give your man so much attention, kind of ignore him a little(men LOVEa little mystery in a woman) THIS IS THE KEY . but do give him flirty looks Here is another thing if you go out to the store where ever either alone or with your man , "Take" this sexy , confident, dressed hot, New YOU out with you.lol Others will notice you And when your man notices others looking at you HE will pay more attention to you. Do not act "slutty " there is a difference. But if you Do get your man's attention whisper in his ear , "The things I want to do to You Baby , mmmn" Then walk away fast! if he doesn't follow you and ask you "what do you want to do to me?" Just give it a few days , maybe even a week. and remember be patient , very important. Remember you got to spice it up a bit, he is probably in a slump, and down in the dumps, ok.
March 14, 2010 - 8:51pmRemember don't just Act happy Be Happy. Love yourself and others will too. And if he doesn't well then maybe it is time to take a good look at things and decide is This really for me or do I Deserve to be happy with someone who will give back ,not just take all the time. do not argue do not talk about ANYTHING that is negative! I found This was KILLING our relationship. Don't get discouraged if you dress up sexy in a teddy and he is not ready for action. Be sweet to him. Give him a goodnight kiss he won't forget and touch him briefly down there. That usually puts a guy on the right track and it does take some work. Say,"I love honey" and slide your tongue across your upper lips! when in bed say goodnight baby, and kiss him 3 times on the back of his neck. There are so many things you can do. I got so frustrated and cried, and even That didn't work. But this plan I listed above got his attention fast! also when he noticed other guys checking me out and talking to me it got him interrested in me again, BUT DO NOT Try to get him jealous on purpose!EVER! this NEVER works!. we now have sex at least 2x's a week ,but I love how he now likes to cuddle with me, try that. say I just want to snuggle with you and then when he does, slide your hand on his leg massaging it gently. Also You get involved with other things, going places, reading a great book after all you deserve it. If he really loves you he will come around. Use what God gave you (no not your looks lol) the Art of "persuassion!" read about it and how to use your voice in a calm, sexy, sweet way to convince him he's got to have you ! Think it , see it ,believe it, and it Will happen
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