Hmm...I realize while we all have seemingly similar problems, there are situations where the problem is not about the sex at all. It's the relationship that is the trouble. Yes, sometimes people get too mired into an unhealthy relationship, that they can't even see the problem, that is so obvious to outside lookers. When we are unhealthy, we attract unhealthy lovers so it's just a vicious cycle. I agree with Texasgirl...looks like she's gone through some hoops in life and come out victorious so she knows what she's talking about. Interestingly enough, the book she mentioned Women Who Love Too Much, came into my path a few days after having found this empowher site. I call it divine intervention, the universe is trying to give me a hint. It practically jumped out at me at a bookstore. It was whispering to me...Here I am, read me read me. But I would venture to bet that a lot of women can easily fall into that trap of caring and loving too much in an unhealthy pattern, because as the female species, it's ingrained in us to be the caretaker. We are just brought up that way...it's in our blood. But it can really take that to the upmost level that becomes so detrimental to ourselves. I believe there are women who love too much support groups out there...
As for men who are having problems adjustting to their woman after having babies...I don't know what to say...maybe other women who's had babies can help this girl out who had a question...
Men are so fragile sometimes...they are as if they are little boys...it's very frustrating...just hearing stories about it...I know because I've had girlfriends who's had babies, and the men just appear to be in "shock" and don't know what to do...They try to escape, they get depressed, they don't participate in helping out with the newborn...it leaves the woman feeling all alone and raising the kid on her own! Friggin pathetic. I feel for the women in that position. They should have pre-baby 101 classes for men so they know what to expect and what they are signing in for...
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Hmm...I realize while we all have seemingly similar problems, there are situations where the problem is not about the sex at all. It's the relationship that is the trouble. Yes, sometimes people get too mired into an unhealthy relationship, that they can't even see the problem, that is so obvious to outside lookers. When we are unhealthy, we attract unhealthy lovers so it's just a vicious cycle. I agree with Texasgirl...looks like she's gone through some hoops in life and come out victorious so she knows what she's talking about. Interestingly enough, the book she mentioned Women Who Love Too Much, came into my path a few days after having found this empowher site. I call it divine intervention, the universe is trying to give me a hint. It practically jumped out at me at a bookstore. It was whispering to me...Here I am, read me read me. But I would venture to bet that a lot of women can easily fall into that trap of caring and loving too much in an unhealthy pattern, because as the female species, it's ingrained in us to be the caretaker. We are just brought up that way...it's in our blood. But it can really take that to the upmost level that becomes so detrimental to ourselves. I believe there are women who love too much support groups out there...
August 14, 2009 - 8:12amAs for men who are having problems adjustting to their woman after having babies...I don't know what to say...maybe other women who's had babies can help this girl out who had a question...
Men are so fragile sometimes...they are as if they are little boys...it's very frustrating...just hearing stories about it...I know because I've had girlfriends who's had babies, and the men just appear to be in "shock" and don't know what to do...They try to escape, they get depressed, they don't participate in helping out with the newborn...it leaves the woman feeling all alone and raising the kid on her own! Friggin pathetic. I feel for the women in that position. They should have pre-baby 101 classes for men so they know what to expect and what they are signing in for...
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