This is what we have to look forward to at these times...more work, more stress, less money, less jobs, no job, less sex, or no sex, stressed about not having enough sex or not having sex at all, makes us more stressed and makes our men more stressed, it's a vicious cycle!
Why not let's just all lighten up a little and be more understanding, in fact, a little more extra understanding, let it go, let the problem go...take a class that puts that frustrated sexual energy into something creative doing something physical with your body (hahah I don't mean sleeping with other men!), like martial arts or, dare I say it, yoga (I'm not a yoga person at all, but that's what people always say to me, try yoga, take yoga.), get a massage, treat your man to a professional massage, just make sure send him to a "professional" okay? Maybe even get a professional massage together in the same room, they do that kind of thing, you know? It will cost money of course. But it's so worth it. Or do something creative like writing or drawing or painting, or play an instrument, if that's your cup of tea. Go for a walk together, or by yourself, hike with a group in a hiking club, breathe in fresh air, drag your man with you, don't forget his hiking boots...get the blood flowing, and the energy flowing. But just let go...relax...don't think too much about it. Thinking too much kills sex. Sex is a destressor, ya? It's supposed to be fun and relaxing, ya? So why are we stressing about it?
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This is what we have to look forward to at these times...more work, more stress, less money, less jobs, no job, less sex, or no sex, stressed about not having enough sex or not having sex at all, makes us more stressed and makes our men more stressed, it's a vicious cycle!
August 12, 2009 - 7:14amWhy not let's just all lighten up a little and be more understanding, in fact, a little more extra understanding, let it go, let the problem go...take a class that puts that frustrated sexual energy into something creative doing something physical with your body (hahah I don't mean sleeping with other men!), like martial arts or, dare I say it, yoga (I'm not a yoga person at all, but that's what people always say to me, try yoga, take yoga.), get a massage, treat your man to a professional massage, just make sure send him to a "professional" okay? Maybe even get a professional massage together in the same room, they do that kind of thing, you know? It will cost money of course. But it's so worth it. Or do something creative like writing or drawing or painting, or play an instrument, if that's your cup of tea. Go for a walk together, or by yourself, hike with a group in a hiking club, breathe in fresh air, drag your man with you, don't forget his hiking boots...get the blood flowing, and the energy flowing. But just let go...relax...don't think too much about it. Thinking too much kills sex. Sex is a destressor, ya? It's supposed to be fun and relaxing, ya? So why are we stressing about it?
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