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It's only natural that sex is hot and constant in the beginning stages of a relationship, and overtime it dwindles both in quality and quantity. Sometimes sex wasn't that hot in the beginning but it was just okay, and I don't think anything is wrong with that, as long as you love each other and get along and are the best of friends. I think sometimes we expect a lot from ourselves because of what we see in the media. I mean look at every movies (at least I'm talking about American movies). Everything has sex in it because sex sells. But we are not stupid enough to realize that most of these are unrealistic, or are we? Sex is over hyped. I think most of the problem talked about here is sexual incompatibility- which can be remedied by communication, compromise and coming to a middle ground that is workable for both parties. I think we expect things to be easy. Well it is not. Sooner or later, when we realize it is not easy, we just give up and not try. It takes hard work, but nothing in life that's worth going for is ever easy.
To the poster who asked to hear from men's views...HAHAHAH are you kidding me? If a man will answer, then us women won't be having these problems. They're not gonna open their mouths! For all we know, they don't have a clue to what's going on inside themselves either. All I can think of is there is something the government put in the air making them not sexual...GOTCHA! just kidding. All I can think of is they are not feeling good about themselves, about something...money, work, their life goals. I mean think about it girls, if you are not feeling good about yourselves, would you have sex? Well, maybe that's a wrong question to ask. Afterall men are a little bit different than us...they are like martials that we have to decode to understand. All I can advise to the women here is to do a self-course study of men and study men, learn what makes them tick. Afterall to be able to live with them, and love them you have to understand them. However, in that process, don't forget yourselves...You have to keep doing what you enjoy doing and not neglect your own life. Oh, and one last thing...no more forcing and nagging your man to have sex with you...I don't think it's gonna work...would you have sex if someone forces you to? I didn't think so...
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It's only natural that sex is hot and constant in the beginning stages of a relationship, and overtime it dwindles both in quality and quantity. Sometimes sex wasn't that hot in the beginning but it was just okay, and I don't think anything is wrong with that, as long as you love each other and get along and are the best of friends. I think sometimes we expect a lot from ourselves because of what we see in the media. I mean look at every movies (at least I'm talking about American movies). Everything has sex in it because sex sells. But we are not stupid enough to realize that most of these are unrealistic, or are we? Sex is over hyped. I think most of the problem talked about here is sexual incompatibility- which can be remedied by communication, compromise and coming to a middle ground that is workable for both parties. I think we expect things to be easy. Well it is not. Sooner or later, when we realize it is not easy, we just give up and not try. It takes hard work, but nothing in life that's worth going for is ever easy.
August 12, 2009 - 6:58amTo the poster who asked to hear from men's views...HAHAHAH are you kidding me? If a man will answer, then us women won't be having these problems. They're not gonna open their mouths! For all we know, they don't have a clue to what's going on inside themselves either. All I can think of is there is something the government put in the air making them not sexual...GOTCHA! just kidding. All I can think of is they are not feeling good about themselves, about something...money, work, their life goals. I mean think about it girls, if you are not feeling good about yourselves, would you have sex? Well, maybe that's a wrong question to ask. Afterall men are a little bit different than us...they are like martials that we have to decode to understand. All I can advise to the women here is to do a self-course study of men and study men, learn what makes them tick. Afterall to be able to live with them, and love them you have to understand them. However, in that process, don't forget yourselves...You have to keep doing what you enjoy doing and not neglect your own life. Oh, and one last thing...no more forcing and nagging your man to have sex with you...I don't think it's gonna work...would you have sex if someone forces you to? I didn't think so...
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