I'm sorry to hear about your live-in b-f. I, too have been with my guy for a little over 2 years and have been living together for 2. Like most couples, the first year was nothing but sex, sex, sex. The past year has been a roller coaster. Sometimes twice aday, sometimes once a week! It definitely takes a toll on your self-esteem. My guy and I are both bodybuilders. I have a crazy sex drive, but his is all over the place. It's frustrating to work so hard to look lovely, then get turned down constantly. Like all of you ladies out there, it is exhausting to be the one to initiate sex or be "patient" until your partner is ready. I have totally had it with keeping quiet or just saying it's okay because I don't want to seem demanding or needy. My guy is very sweet and cuddly. He makes the sweetest comments regarding the way I look. He doesn't watch porn or go to bars with friends. I know where he is and that he is not cheating. We are best friends and have a great time together.I've heard that long term relationships are best with someone that you not only love, but are also best friends with. Still, it's frustrating. What to do when you are polar opposites in the bedroom? I love my guy dearly for sure and would never cheat to satisfy my needs.
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I'm sorry to hear about your live-in b-f. I, too have been with my guy for a little over 2 years and have been living together for 2. Like most couples, the first year was nothing but sex, sex, sex. The past year has been a roller coaster. Sometimes twice aday, sometimes once a week! It definitely takes a toll on your self-esteem. My guy and I are both bodybuilders. I have a crazy sex drive, but his is all over the place. It's frustrating to work so hard to look lovely, then get turned down constantly. Like all of you ladies out there, it is exhausting to be the one to initiate sex or be "patient" until your partner is ready. I have totally had it with keeping quiet or just saying it's okay because I don't want to seem demanding or needy. My guy is very sweet and cuddly. He makes the sweetest comments regarding the way I look. He doesn't watch porn or go to bars with friends. I know where he is and that he is not cheating. We are best friends and have a great time together.I've heard that long term relationships are best with someone that you not only love, but are also best friends with. Still, it's frustrating. What to do when you are polar opposites in the bedroom? I love my guy dearly for sure and would never cheat to satisfy my needs.
August 11, 2009 - 10:38pmThis Comment
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