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Oh my, I agree with Anonymous on May 31, 2009 - 7:25am

I am taking a friggin risk and leaving the man I love. I say if he really loves me he will make love to me. I think all of our problem here, the women posting here with the same situation is our men can walk all over us. I see it so clearly now. They know we will be there patiently waiting albeit miserable even if they don't lift a finger and we are not inspiring him to do anything. And wearing a sexy lingerie is not the inspiration I am talking about or trying to get his attention or beg for his "love". Good luck ladies. A person (a man for this matter) really won't change unless there is some big risk. It is too comfortable to change even in a state of misery. And maybe they are not even in love with us. They are just too comfortable and scared to leave themselves. But what kind of a life is it to resign to no sex, and stay together and the woman stays miserable, rather than leave, albeith scary? All my love and luck to you women. I bid you Adieu.