I need advice..After reading some of these comments it just bring me to tears. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. We use to have a very exciting and sexual relationship. Im 27 and he is 32. We have discussed it many times and the reasons he says just blows my mind. I am a full time college student and he works full time. We are happy with what we have and we have the normal stresses in life. We also live together. Anyways, he said one time that I wasnt affectionate enough and another time that relationships are not all about sex. It has been over 4 months since the last time we had sex and before that I would be lucky to get it at least once a month or less. My mom and other friends of mine say its not normal. I work out 5 days a week and I get attention from other men and I can walk naked in front of him and he doesnt look at me sexually like a typical guy would. I love him and I know he loves me. I heard that he is planning on proposing to me next month..( a secret a relative told me) but I dont want to marry someone that isnt even intimate with me. What should I do. I have mentioned couples counseling a few times and maybe its the fear of if I do breakup with him what if that is the biggest mistake of my life. Everything else about him is perfect. Im torn and only becoming a bitter person because of all this. I know its not normal and people tell me it not normal. Is this normal? Please help!
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I need advice..After reading some of these comments it just bring me to tears. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. We use to have a very exciting and sexual relationship. Im 27 and he is 32. We have discussed it many times and the reasons he says just blows my mind. I am a full time college student and he works full time. We are happy with what we have and we have the normal stresses in life. We also live together. Anyways, he said one time that I wasnt affectionate enough and another time that relationships are not all about sex. It has been over 4 months since the last time we had sex and before that I would be lucky to get it at least once a month or less. My mom and other friends of mine say its not normal. I work out 5 days a week and I get attention from other men and I can walk naked in front of him and he doesnt look at me sexually like a typical guy would. I love him and I know he loves me. I heard that he is planning on proposing to me next month..( a secret a relative told me) but I dont want to marry someone that isnt even intimate with me. What should I do. I have mentioned couples counseling a few times and maybe its the fear of if I do breakup with him what if that is the biggest mistake of my life. Everything else about him is perfect. Im torn and only becoming a bitter person because of all this. I know its not normal and people tell me it not normal. Is this normal? Please help!
July 24, 2009 - 6:00pmThis Comment
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