my story is similar to these girls. i am 26 and my boyfriend 30. we have been together for almost 2 years. we have had sex maybe once in the past 6 months. im frustrated and sad. i cry many nights because i feel unattractive. it has became very hard for me to initiate sex because i have been turned down so many times. i cant take the rejection. i tried to get him in the mood but i cant. he has even fell asleep while i was messaging he man hood. when i try to talk to him about it, it somehow becomes an arguement. he says he doesnt understand why i say the same things over and over. (like are you cheating, are you not attracted to me anymore,ect.). i dont see how he has time to cheat when he is always working or at home. but its still in the back of my mind. when i was pregnant he said it was my belly, that it wasnt sexy. that hurt so much. but he reassured me that things would change. well they havent. now he says he is exausted from work and cant get in the mood. well he stopped wanting to have sex way before the baby and the new job switch. i just wasnt ready to approach him about untill then. i know he pleasures him self. when i ask why he does it when he has a women willing a ready. he says its a stress relief and it doesnt take much work. by the way the very few times that we have been together im really the only one participating. he just says get on top and lays thier. i really just want the intimacy that goes along with it. he says we will when we havent talked about it. but im still waiting. how long do i have to wait. we just got in an arguement last night about it. i said he doesnt care about my feelings. he took it that i was saying he doesnt satify me.
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my story is similar to these girls. i am 26 and my boyfriend 30. we have been together for almost 2 years. we have had sex maybe once in the past 6 months. im frustrated and sad. i cry many nights because i feel unattractive. it has became very hard for me to initiate sex because i have been turned down so many times. i cant take the rejection. i tried to get him in the mood but i cant. he has even fell asleep while i was messaging he man hood. when i try to talk to him about it, it somehow becomes an arguement. he says he doesnt understand why i say the same things over and over. (like are you cheating, are you not attracted to me anymore,ect.). i dont see how he has time to cheat when he is always working or at home. but its still in the back of my mind. when i was pregnant he said it was my belly, that it wasnt sexy. that hurt so much. but he reassured me that things would change. well they havent. now he says he is exausted from work and cant get in the mood. well he stopped wanting to have sex way before the baby and the new job switch. i just wasnt ready to approach him about untill then. i know he pleasures him self. when i ask why he does it when he has a women willing a ready. he says its a stress relief and it doesnt take much work. by the way the very few times that we have been together im really the only one participating. he just says get on top and lays thier. i really just want the intimacy that goes along with it. he says we will when we havent talked about it. but im still waiting. how long do i have to wait. we just got in an arguement last night about it. i said he doesnt care about my feelings. he took it that i was saying he doesnt satify me.
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