hi i have the same problem. im 22 years old my fionce is 38 we have been together for a little over a year now. and he never wants to have sex with me. i love him to death. but it is very frustrating to know that i have a man that wont sexually please me ever.now he doesnt sleep good at all its very hard for him to get to sleep and when he does its time for him to go to work. i asked him if there was somthing wrong with me he said no its him that he lacks the sex drive.? now what does that mean?? he isnt affectionate at all he doesnt like to cuddle. or hold hands somtimes i think he is embarrassed to be with me in public cause im so much younger then him.? i dont no tho. i do no that i am in my prime and it would be nice to get some action at least once a month. the last time we had sex was in february and it is now july. its been a long time and i ask him if he wants to he tells me he dont feel good or his head hurts or he is to tired. so i just stoped asking cause i just get the same answer every time i ask. so why bother? it makes me feel dumb when he rejects me i cry all the time by myself about what could be wrong with me???? please help me i dont no what to do please tell me something other then why am i with him or he is to old for me cause we love eachother. oh and he tells me that just talking to me is his sex!
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hi i have the same problem. im 22 years old my fionce is 38 we have been together for a little over a year now. and he never wants to have sex with me. i love him to death. but it is very frustrating to know that i have a man that wont sexually please me ever.now he doesnt sleep good at all its very hard for him to get to sleep and when he does its time for him to go to work. i asked him if there was somthing wrong with me he said no its him that he lacks the sex drive.? now what does that mean?? he isnt affectionate at all he doesnt like to cuddle. or hold hands somtimes i think he is embarrassed to be with me in public cause im so much younger then him.? i dont no tho. i do no that i am in my prime and it would be nice to get some action at least once a month. the last time we had sex was in february and it is now july. its been a long time and i ask him if he wants to he tells me he dont feel good or his head hurts or he is to tired. so i just stoped asking cause i just get the same answer every time i ask. so why bother? it makes me feel dumb when he rejects me i cry all the time by myself about what could be wrong with me???? please help me i dont no what to do please tell me something other then why am i with him or he is to old for me cause we love eachother. oh and he tells me that just talking to me is his sex!
July 19, 2009 - 1:43amThis Comment
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