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I completely understand what you are going through. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. We get into huge arguments about this, in fact it is the only thing we argue about. We use to have sex 2-3 times a day. Now I'm lucky to get it that much a month. He has no appetite for sex. I think about going outside our relationship becuase I think it is me and I just want to know if other guys are still attractive to me. I try everything and it breaks my heart. I cannot imagine my life with anyone else, yet at the same time, I cannot imagine spending the rest of my life feeling like this. I constantly make myself available and it's always not the time. When we do have sex, it's always amazing. I'm at my wits end and do not know what to do. I know he's not cheating on me, we live together and know where each other are every minute of the day. I feel guilty wanting to outside our relationship but it's the only thing I know to do to make me feel human. I love him so much and know tha the loves me too, but I don't understand why he doesn't want me, it breaks my heart.